If you are chronic yeller like me, you probably think, shouting is the only way to get your kids to listen 👂
However, it’s only working because your kids are afraid of you and you’ve conditioned them to only hear you when you shout 😁.
If you have a teenager like me, I’m sure your shouting doesn’t work with them anymore.
My son always walks around the house with his headphones on, even when he is not listening to music 😁.
I think he does this to block out all the noise and avoid talking to me..
I used to think the only way to get my son to do what I asked him to do was to shout at him, until one day he said to me, “mum you don’t need to shout, I’m right here and I heard you the first time”
To say I was shocked was an understatement, thank God, I have started reading about Positive Parenting then, I don’t know what I would have done 😁 (my ego was bruised 😁)
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Anyway the point I’m trying to make here is that, as parents we need to understand that parenting is about modelling, children copy what we do.
If we don’t want them to start throwing tantrums and shouting at people because they think that’s the only way to get their point across, we need to stop shouting at them.
They are watching you, be intentional.
You can do this, if I can change, so can you.
Ask Tolu, I rarely shout at him😁
But I still find myself shouting when I’m having a conversation over the phone though 😊
I’m so excited to announce that my Parenting book – THE PARENTING JOURNEY – 15 Chapters of Parenting Guidelines is filled with practical and logical tips from a mother’s point of view!
Is live on Amazon
(It’s a book for reminding all parents – that life is hard and you’re doing your best – so try not to beat yourself up for everyday mistakes!)
To say that I am happy or that this was a labour of love is an understatement. The seed for this book was planted 8 years ago and it has been quite the journey bringing it to life !
And it’s finally live on Amazon 🙌🙌💃💃💃
💎Everything that my children and the children I work with, about how to become a better parent and adults is in this book and I feel equally honoured, privileged and proud to share it with you ❤️
👉Thanks to my amazing editor Ms Adejumoke Omobayo for making this dream come true ❤️🙏🏾
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ABOUT THE BOOK:👇:
If you have been following me, you would have known me as a mother and a grandmother, and someone that loves and works with children.
My passion is children and I love them no matter who or where they’re born.
I believe in them and I know that no child is born bad, it’s the environment that influences them to be whoever they become.
I also believe that with a loving and a caring parent or caregiver any child can thrive!
💢Everything starts from home and our childhood.
👉I believe Children’s chances of leading a fulfilled adult life, depends on their early childhood experience. Because it is in this period the dominant share of their adult identity has been molded.
That meant – Our childhood matters!
🛑 If parents can get the first few years (0-5) of a child right, the rest will be much easier.
👉 It’s not me just saying this, there is lots of evidence that supports this (do your research if you don’t believe me) 😃
If you have been following me, you will know I know what I’m talking about.
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WHAT’S INSIDE THE BOOK
✅My early parenting experiences
✅Positive Parenting Principles
✅ Raising your children/ teenagers without shouting or beating and they will listen.
✅ How to parent a toddler
✅ How a child’s brain works
✅Sibling Rivalry
✅ Positive Discipline
✅Puberty
✅Positive Discipline techniques
✅Parenting Adult children
✅ The difference between raising children in Nigeria and in a foreign country.
✅ Raising Kids in the 21st Century
✅ How to boost your kids self esteem
✅ Raising boys and girls to become a responsible adults
✅ Creating a secure attachment with your baby
✅ And much more …
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💢If you desire to learn what it takes to raise your baby to become a confident, responsible young adults, without hassles and headaches, this book is for you
💢 Get it today, and learn the practical techniques, tips and strategies for positive parenting!
💢THE PARENTING JOURNEY BOOK IS OUT TODAY ON AMAZON!
💢As an alternative, the Kindle ebook is also available now and can be read on any device with a free kindle app.
Recently, I was having a conversation with a parent about the new superman comic that would soon be released and the parent was worried about the effect it will have on her kids and kids generally.
So today I would like to share my thoughts on this.
First of all, this Superman comic is a done deal, it will happen!
Just thought I should say this now, if you’re still thinking maybe it won’t come out!
So, I think the best option we have now as parents is to start preparing our children’s minds and educating them on sexual orientation if we haven’t yet!
Already, we have started seeing lots of cartoons showing some sexual content.
💥Please dear parents, this is not the time to start panicking and binding the devil o.
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TIPS FOR TALKING TO YOUR KIDS ABOUT SEXUAL ORIENTATION
✅Talk to your kids about what it means to be gay and bisexual.
✅Ask them if they have heard the word gay and bisexual before (I can assure you most of them must have)
✅Ask your kids questions about how they feel. (Please listen to them, let them talk and don’t interrupt them and don’t show any emotion if they decide to talk)
✅Talk about your values and what the Bible says about it if you are a Christian.
✅Watch what you say around them
✅Don’t criticise the gay people in front of your kids, explain to your kids that gay or bisexual people are not bad people, it’s just their way of life. That they are still a child of God!
👉It is important that you don’t judge or say bad things about gay people in front of your kids
👉Dear parents, there is nothing wrong with your 8 or 9 year old asking you these types of questions, they are just curious and their peers are probably talking about it.
✅Talk to them and reason with them, this is not the time to start fretting, it’s the society we leave in.
✅Be a student of their culture, don’t be ignorant. Start doing research on stuff and be up to date with these things.
✅Keep the conversation going with your kids, but don’t make it look like an interrogation. They know when you’re questioning them and they will just say what you want to hear or shut down
✅Also, please guys, if your child start talking about gay people, that doesn’t mean he is gay o
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I will leave you with this thought 👇
Dear parents, I know this may be a difficult topic to talk to our kids about, but we need to remember that our children already know a lot about these things before they start asking you questions.
Please don’t shut them up, answer their questions, if you’re not sure, tell them to give you some time to figure it out yourself.
Also, when you don’t know the answer to a question, it is perfectly fine to simply say, “You know, I don’t know the answer to that!”
Some parents may fear that if they tell their younger children that “gay” is what it means when people of the same gender are attracted to each other that they
will be forced to answer questions about sexual relations between same sex couples.
But in my experience, most young kids are satisfied with what you told them.
In addition, some parents also fear that telling a younger child that sometimes men are attracted to men and women are attracted to women will put ideas in their kids’ heads about “becoming gay” themselves.
This is not true!
The reality is that in the absence of information provided from you (a reliable source) kids are more likely to get wrong information from other sources or just fill in the blanks themselves.
Rest assured that your children are what they are, and providing information will only help them have a better understanding of the world around them.
Few weeks ago, my sister called me to share some of her worries with me.
Apparently her son has been finding school hard and he is showing some aggressive behaviour at school which was now a concern to her and the school.
So now, her son’s school is threatening to EXCLUDE him, if he continues to behave badly at school (my nephew is only a 7 years old boy!)
I know I am a teacher, so what I’m about to share today may seem biased and insensitive to my profession, but It is important. I’m all about children and their well-being!
I see this play out in schools a lot!
❗️Truly bad teachers are unusual, but they do exist. They know their subject matter. What they may not know, however, are classroom management skills!
🎯There is a saying in my language that (eni tio ni erueni, ko le mo iyi eni) please can anyone translate this for me?
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Anyway, back to today’s topic, I remember when my son was in primary school, I usually get a call from his school because of his behaviour. My son was so lucky he went to a good school and had good teachers.
In his school they had different sorts of behaviour management strategies that helped him. He was never threatened with exclusion.
However, some children are not so lucky! .
🎯Don’t get me wrong, there are lots of good teachers out there, but I’m here to shine the light on some teachers that need help with their own emotional baggage.
❗️Some teachers need to be trained and retrained when it comes to teaching our black children and how to manage behaviour in the classroom.
❗️Some of these kids are misunderstood and what they need is compassion most times.
👉From all the studies we have seen, we know that all behaviour has meaning.
👉We also know that what happens early in life lasts for a lifetime.
👉When your children come home and complain to you about their teachers, don’t take it lightly and report to the Headteacher /principal. Do something about it! You know your children!
👉 Also, watch out for some clues when you attend parent meeting at your children school. Toxic teachers’ input is almost always negative, they won’t offer you any solutions but rather point out your child’s problems. For example, they might complain about your child’s poor performance, citing “laziness” or “lack of focus.”
👉Dealing with a problematic teacher or confronting them is never pleasant. However, it is vital to fix the situation as soon as possible because your child’s wellbeing is at stake.
👉Being yelled at, blamed, belittled, bullied, or made a scapegoat by a teacher can do a lot of damage for kids in the long run. Even if other parents and school officials are OK with this type of teacher, it doesn’t mean it’s OK.
👉Sometimes when one parent says something, others will join. So don’t be afraid to be the first one to raise concern. SPEAK UP!!
✅ So that’s the main reason why I’m sharing this today
Our children deserve to have good and patient adults around them from early on.
WHAT TEACHERS NEED TO KNOW 👇
Teachers must understand the emotional development of the children in their classroom (teachers also need to understand who they are, understand their biased that they bring into the classroom, the baggage they bring into the classroom, what’s the emotional baggage they bring into the classroom, what are they seeing, what are they seeing through their lense.
They must understand the temperament of children and their own temperament. Is that child fearful, is that child fiercest in front of them only (why is that triggering them)
Schools need to think about what’s happening in the child’s family and work with the family
Children need and deserve teachers who can connect with them and show compassion.
Teachers need to start teaching children with compassion and they should try to connect before they correct!
School need to be a safe place for our kids, not a scary place
My final thought 👇
❤️EARLY TRAUMA HAS A DIRECT IMPACT ON A CHILD’S LONG TERM HEALTH OUTCOME
❤️WE ALSO KNOW THAT THE BRAIN RESEARCHER FOUND OUT THAT
👉THE FIRST 5 YEARS OF A CHILD’S LIFE IS THE MOST CRITICAL TIME OF BRAIN DEVELOPMENT
I would like you to read the above statement again and try to understand what that meant!👆
👉What that statement meant was that we can influence a generation in 5 years!
If we want to change society we must change the way we teach our youngest children/ our preschoolers.
We need to start investing time and be more intentional about how we teach and raise our younger children
✅I also think, one key way to tackle the issue is to promote more black staff to senior positions in school, so staff teams can increase their cultural awareness and sensitivity.
❗️A positive classroom environment is a primary reason why kids want to go to school and enjoy learning.
👉Please dear teachers/parents; – We need to give our children the hope they need for a better day!
Have you ever wondered why some children or even adults are sometimes difficult to be with?
They are always angry, defensive and just rude! Sometimes we call those children -‘stubborn children’
Have you ever wondered what happened to them that turned them to be like that?
Today, I’m going to talk about what childhood trauma can do to children if it was not dealt with!
When bad things happen, it can take a while for kids to get over the pain and feel safe again.
Young children suffering from traumatic stress symptoms generally have difficulty regulating their behaviors and emotions.
They may be clingy and fearful of new situations, easily frightened, difficult to console, and/or aggressive and impulsive.
🛑Here are some signs that your child is suffering from traumatic stress
1️⃣Poor Academic performance
2️⃣Intense and ongoing emotional upset, including feelings of fear.
3️⃣Depression / Aches and pains
4️⃣Nightmares or trouble sleeping
5️⃣Changes in eating habits or loss of appetite
7️⃣Bed wetting
8️⃣Difficulty trusting you or others
9️⃣Difficulty concentrating or paying attention
🔟Regression or loss of skills the child had previously mastered
Develop eating disorders
❇️Childhood trauma can result from anything that disrupts a child’s sense of safety, including:
❗️An unstable or unsafe environment
❗️Separation from a parent
❗️Serious illnesses
❗️Sexual, physical, or verbal abuse
❗️Domestic violence
❗️Neglect
❗️Absent parents
❗️Bully
Experiencing trauma in childhood can result in a severe and long-lasting effect.
When childhood trauma is not resolved, a sense of fear and helplessness carries over into adulthood, setting the stage for further trauma.
So what can parents and adults do to help?
GET HELP! Heal first ! Before we can heal from our childhood trauma we must first acknowledge what we have been through.
Deal with your own childhood trauma ( be honest with yourself we’ve all been through some pain in our childhood, but we are so good at masking it with our achievements ) (see a therapist or talk to someone)
Try your best not to project your anger on your children, they are not the cause of your pain. (Treat your kids with respect that they deserve)
Be the kind of mother you wish you had to your children
Be stable, create a stable environment for them
Stop hitting or shouting at your kids
Hug your child often – When we hug our children we are helping them to reduce their stress
Be their number one fan
Take them to see a therapist
Please remember this every time your child is showing some unwanted behaviour 👇
Say to yourself- My child isn’t giving me a hard time. My child is having a hard time.’
‼️We all react to trauma in different ways, experiencing a wide range of physical and emotional reactions. There is no “right” or “wrong” way to think, feel, or respond, so don’t judge your own reactions or those of other people.
‼️While you don’t have to talk about the trauma itself, it is important that you have someone to share your feelings with face to face, someone who will listen attentively without judging you. Turn to a trusted family member, friend, counselor, or your pastor
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The Good News is that:
What’s important to remember is that these reactions are normal and expected.
No matter what your child has been through, overcoming childhood trauma is possible; they have the potential for growth.
Speak to your doctor about this, they may refer you to a therapist!
Please don’t overlook this, because it’s very important.
Remember they will be an adult one day! We must do the right thing by our kids!
Our childhood has so much influence on the adults we become. But before we start blaming our parents, they were doing exactly what they thought they knew best.
I don’t want to nag too much but when my son won’t stop playing loud music or clean the dishes or just do what I’m asking, I don’t know what else to do, so I yell at him.
So, yes. Even though I know what I should be doing.
I used to have have this problem with being impatient and I love things to be done my way. However when my son became a teenager I realised I had to be patient with him and learn how to deal with him differently.
Maybe you feel the same way. And you may scold yourself for each parenting mistake.
Don’t. There are no perfect parents.
At the same time, nagging puts such an emotional drain on us and our children.
Thankfully, we now know there is a better way to discipline our own kids.
A way that:
*Actually corrects the behavior
*Deepens the relationship between parent and child
*Increases the child’s feelings of self-worth
WHAT IS POSITIVE DISCIPLINE ❤️
Positive Discipline is a method where parents clearly communicate what behaviors are appropriate, which ones are inappropriate, and what the rewards for good behavior and the consequences for bad behavior are.
So, how does this play at our home?
Here is a simple, 5 steps process you can use for any behavior.
♦️STEP 1:.SHARE YOUR FEELINGS WITHOUT COMING DOWN ON YOUR CHILD
My son hates cleaning dishes. Each time I ask him to do it, he tells me he’s too tired right now to clean the dishes.
This used to drive me mad!
♦️Step 2: TELL YOUR EXPECTATIONS
Now, I needed to follow it up so that he could take the steps necessary.
I went to where he was and say something like.
“I expect the dishes to be watched before the end of the day and put away without complaining.”
♦️Step 3: GIVE THEM A CHOICE
Here’s where it gets a little difficult. With chores, your end goal is for your child to complete their assigned task.
What choice can you give them?
For me, it came down to now or later. But not too much later..
My next move would have been,
“You can either wash the dishes now or give me time and then wash them when you promised”.
Either way, the plates get washed and put away. But now he has the choice of when to do it.
If he still continued complaining after the time he promised?
♦️Step 4: MAKE THE CHOICE FOR THEM
That is your cue to take action and make the choice for them.
At this point, I would go to him and tell him calmly it’s time to wash the dishes.
If this process works and he comes back calm, then great!
But if it doesn’t, you are not alone. Every child is different.
What works for one doesn’t work for another. When one child has to be told once, another may need this process repeated 5 times until he calms down.
♦️Step 5: TAKE ACTION
Your next step is to do something so that the behavior doesn’t occur again.
It simply can’t occur because you’ve taken the steps to correct it.
Next time my son complains about cleaning the dishes, I simply leave the kitchen.
It’s a natural consequence to my son because I’ve told him I don’t like complaining. I leave the room so I can’t hear it.
If these five steps don’t work to correct the behavior, that doesn’t mean it’s time for punishment.
It simply indicates that the problem is more complicated than you originally thought and you need to move into problem solving.
PS: I will be sharing some problem solving ideas with you in my subsequent post.
So stay tuned!
Thanks and have a wonderful day today
Please let me know what you think in the comment below 👇
Good morning my amazing parents, Does your child find it hard to study or do revision at home? Well, you are not alone!
I remember when my son was in year nine (8th Grade) and he kept getting low grades at school and feeling less motivated.
I had to quickly step in because he seemed not to care about anything except playing games with his friends online
So seeing that was the only thing that he was interested in, I had to talk to him and we both agreed that he could only play games on weekends and study on weekdays until his grades improve.
With his help, I came up with a study plan, and the deal was that he must stick to it if he wants to play games with his friends on weekends.
It was hard initially, but I was consistent and I made sure I followed through and it eventually worked.
I know my son’s weaknesses and his strengths and I use that to my advantage.
After a few months, his grade picks up.
THINGS ONLY WORK WHEN WE WORK IT!
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So as a parent for your kid to do what you ask them to do, you must first show interest in what they like and talk to them about the bigger picture.
Show them what they can achieve with more effort.
We need to lead by example as well.
Children are not born knowing all, they learn everything from us.
Remember we are our children’s first teacher.
♦️I know all children are different, but as parents, we need to take the lead sometimes, because we know what’s good for them after all. They may not like it, but they will thank you later.
You need to be the driver of their life until they are an adult. Please don’t leave them to it.
👉️There is a reason why kids are not allowed to get their driving license until they are 17 old in UK.
I’m sure you want the best for them. So, show them!
So here are some tips that can help your unmotivated child 😀👇👇👇
GET INVOLVED (Do homework with them)
USE REINFORCEMENT (give them high five, praise them, give them hugs)
WORK WITH THEIR TEACHERS (ask their teachers for help)
HELP THEM SEE THE BIGGER PICTURE (remind them what they can achieve, if they have good grades, for example; with good grades they can choose any University they want even HARVARD if they work hard now)
REWARD EFFORTS RATHER THAN OUTCOME (make sure you celebrate their efforts)
LET THEM MAKE MISTAKES (don’t tell them off when they get things wrong)
GET THEM A TUTOR IF YOU CAN’T HELP THEM (If you know you’re not able to support them at home get a private tutor)
My final thought
Dear parents, If you’re feeling yourself getting angry or frustrated with your kids take a step back.
Put things into context, it is important to keep your goals in perspective.
Remember your child may not become an A student overnight, it will take daily practice and a lot of patience on your part!
Make sure to focus on the effort she puts in and the commitment she shows instead of the outcome.
The goal here is to make sure your child reaches her potential.
Everyone is born with different strengths and weaknesses.
As parents we are given the privilege of discovering our children’s gifts and talents.
Whether they are physical, emotional or spiritual gifts.
So how do we go about discovering our children’s gifts? Here are 3 practical ways to do this.
First, we should pay attention and observe. We can learn so much about our children’s personalities, likes and dislikes through observation.
When we think back on certain situations or past events, we often discover something about our children’s gifts.
💎 You can do this by asking yourself these questions:
♦️What is my child good at?
♦️What does he enjoy doing?
♦️Does he get excited about certain toys, situations?
♦️What scares him?
♦️What comes naturally to her? (for example, organization, social situations, art, sharing, etc.)
♦️Is there something they are passionate about?
💎Second, as parents we must provide our children with opportunities to grow and learn.
Please don’t register them for everything, that may be too much for them to bear.
But if your child expresses an interest in art or helping others, provide them with opportunities to experience it.
💎Last, but not least we must pray and ask God what He has for our children. Be specific in your prayers. Ask God what gifts He placed in your children. Ask throughout the years. Ask him to reveal the hidden treasures in your child.
‼️ 4 Practical Tips to Bring out Your Child’s Gifts
1️⃣ READ ALOUD TO THEM (especially when they’re still little)
2️⃣ HELP THEM DISCOVER THEIR INTEREST
3️⃣ WHEN THEY ASK YOU QUESTIONS ANSWER THEM (don’t dismiss their curiosity)
4️⃣ ENCOURAGE STORY TELLING
5️⃣ ENROL THEM IN A PROGRAM DESIGN FOR GIFTED KIDS
👉My final thought,
Dear parents, we must be patient. These things take time. We also must keep our expectations in check. Are we encouraging our children or pushing them to do things they weren’t created to do? Instead of forcing my standards on my kids, I want to discover what God has for them!
Please remember that not all boys will be good at football, some boys may love singing, dancing and drawing.
Encourage them because that’s what they love and makes them happy.
💚What talent or gifts do you see in your children❓
👉I love hearing from you guys so please share your thoughts in the comments below.👇
Thanks 🙏🏾 ❤️❤️❤️❤️💎
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Sometimes we’re so academically focused; we overlook the role of creativity, imagination, and fun.” Genius can’t be taught, but it can be encouraged.
Parents are a child’s first teacher, so helping and supporting your children in their learning at home will improve how well they do in school.
Young kids are eager to learn when you introduce things to them.
They take everything in, and even the smallest things you do with them can make a big difference.
So today I’m going to share some fun activities you can do with your 3-5 Year old and homework support ideas for older kids . ❤️
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ACTIVITIES FOR 3-5 Year olds
💎 ROLE PLAY
Try role-play games together such as shopping, set items on the sofa, give your child a bag and some pretend money. Then switch roles and let them be the shopkeeper.
💎 ASK THEM OPEN QUESTIONS
Start conversation by using open questions with lots of possible answers, for example – “what are you going to play with today”
💎 PLAY SORTING GAME TOGETHER
Collect a range of different household objects and practice sorting them into different groups, it could be sorted in sizes or colours. Once you have finished, count all the objects in each group.
💎 TEACH THEM HOW TO WRITE THEIR NAMES
You may need to start off with Pre-writing exercise to get them to have good pencil control.
You will need a plain sheet of paper and a Felt tip pen. Or buy Handwriting Practice paper.
Then you need to draw different lines or shapes like; – circle and square on the plain sheets.
Ask your child to trace with her finger first before tracing with a pen.
Once your child has established a good pencil control and they can trace and stay in the line, you can now move on to a white board.
You might need to show them how to write first.
You want to start off, letter by letter of their name.
👉 6 TIPS FOR HELPING YOUR OLDER CHILDREN WITH HOMEWORK.
Create a homework plan- but let your child decide when they prefer to do homework after school. But make sure they stick to it
Create a quiet space for them to do their homework (a desk and table will do, or your dining table)
Help them with their homework, by discussing it with them. But don’t do it for them. Children learn by trying, always allow them to try first. You can sit with them as they complete their homework.
Praise their efforts and allow them to take a break when they are tired and come back to it later. Remember to do little but often. Children lose focus quickly.
Test them on Spellings and Timetables (many children find these very difficult do do without help)
Seek advice from your child’s teacher if they are finding a particular subject difficult (it usually helps)
Your ability as a parent goes beyond supporting your child with their homework. You can also read with them or they can read to you daily, discuss books with them Take them out to places like museums, and watch documentaries together. And more.
Dear parents, I know we are all busy, but we need to remember that for things to work, we need to work it.
We need to be intentional about these things. Our children are our future
Stay tuned for more fun ideas you can do with your little precious 🥰🥰🥰
I was having a conversation with a mum yesterday about the steps she can take when preparing her kids for upcoming exams.
I would like to share some of the advice I gave her, I hope that’s ok 👇👇
❇️Start early, (when they are 6 or 7 years old) the earlier you start the better for them.
❇️Have structures in please and follow it (your children are watching you to see if you will stick to it 😃)
👉 Don’t overload them with work if you start early they will be used to working at their own pace and they will not be over when especially when preparing for any tests in the future.
❇️Track their progress – this will help you to know if they are making progress and also help you to know where they need help in, so you can then focus on their weakness
👉Tips on building your children’s Vocabulary:
Encourage them to read a book daily.
When your child is reading, get them in the habit of stopping when they find new words.
Encourage them to underline those new words they found, and then write it down. Tell them to look for the meaning on Google and maybe use it when they are talking to you or others. For example (instead of saying I’m hungry- they can say I’m famished) you get the point!
❇️And encourage them to practice them timetable daily
Go on YouTube, there are lots of Timetable songs on there.
(singing is fun and they are likely to remember their time bales this way)
❇️Remember all children are different
❇️Remember no child is born dumb, they just need an adult to believe in them and give them lots of chances to proof themselves. Be patient with them
❇️Some children takes longer to process information, that doesn’t make them any less intelligent it’s just their way of learning
❇️If you hired a tutor, make sure you don’t leave everything to the teacher you need to help them at home as well
🛑Remember – Learning is a gradual process, don’t put too much pressure on them, spread the work evenly
But you must have high expectations for them, and they will rise up to it. (FROM WHOM MUCH IS GIVEN MUCH IS EXPECTED)
Please do not have unrealistic expectations. You know your own child better.
Always expect good things from them. Trust me they will surprise you! ( I see this play out most times in my son, and the children I tutor every time)
👉Don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for wanting what’s best for your child. You know your child better than anyone else
Please let me know what you think in the comment below 👇
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