When a usually well-behaved child suddenly starts getting into trouble, it can be confusing and worrying for any parent. But behaviour changes are often a sign that something deeper is going on.
Here’s what to do:
1. Stay calm.
Don’t overreact. Listen and gather the facts.
2. Talk to your child gently.
Ask open questions like: “What happened?” and “How were you feeling?”
3. Look for triggers.
Common causes include friendship issues, academic struggles, bullying, big emotions, or changes at home.
4. Work with the school.
Ask for details and partner with the teacher to support your child.
5. Teach emotional skills.
Help your child express feelings, solve problems, and calm themselves.
6. Praise good behaviour.
Recognise small improvements to build confidence.
7. Set clear but loving boundaries.
Explain what went wrong and what to do next time.
Remember:
Good children make mistakes too. What matters is guiding them with patience, understanding, and consistency.
Happy parenting 🥰❤️
Ms Olu

