Today we are going to continue our conversation about some other behaviour problems in a child and how to solve it. (You can read my previous post on my timeline if you want to learn about other common behaviour in kids)
So let’s talk about Defiant Behavior in kids
Why does my child act defiantly?
By age three your child has realised that he’s separate from you, and that he has his own identity.
Whether your child ignores you when you tell them to pick up their toys or says “No!” When you tell them to stop throwing a toy, defiance is difficult behavior to address. But it’s normal for kids to test limits at one time or another.
How should I handle my child’s defiance?
✅ Set clear rules
Give your preschooler clear boundaries so that he knows what’s expected of him. Set a few simple rules, and discuss them: “We don’t hit. If you’re angry, use your words.” Or, “Remember, you always have to hold my hand in the car park.”
✅Praise good behaviour
One of the best ways to teach your child to obey the rules is to give him lots of praise when he does.
When your child won’t obey rules, offer a single when… then warning. Say, “When you pick up your toys, then you will be able to watch TV.”
If your child doesn’t comply after the warning, follow through with a consequence.
With consistency, your child will learn to listen the first time you speak.
Let’s model good listening to them too, remember they learn from us. If you want them to listen to you we need to do the same.
Respect is a two way things, even in a child and parent relationship 😊
I know we all want to raise kind, polite and thoughtful children
So, let’s try our best 🙏🏾
Remember when we know better we must do better
Thanks and have an amazing week guys 🥰🥰🤗❤️❤️
OLU 🥰🥰❤️
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