Being a grandmother is the greatest joy of my life. Having and seeing my granddaughter for the first time was a blissful and joyful and exceptional experience.
I can’t really explain the magic that took over me when I saw my granddaughter and held her in my arms for the first time. I knew that being a grandparent is a luxury not everyone is fortunate enough to enjoy. I also know that watching after your grandchildren helps you stay sharper longer. And for that, I’m so grateful for the spout of youth in my life that now comes in the form of my beautiful ray of sunshine granddaughter.
A day before my granddaughter was born, my daughter came to my room early in the morning and ask if we could go to the hospital right away, she said, she wasn’t feeling any movement of the baby, I was not alarmed, because I know it happens sometime. I told her that the baby will be fine. I quickly rushed and get ready. When we got to the hospital, she was examined and the nurse moved her into a private room. We were told that they will need to keep her overnight to monitor her and the baby. I had to stay with her and we both spend the night at the hospital. I knew what the next few days would bring, knowing what kind of woman my daughter is, I knew she had the strength to handle it all. So, on that night all of our lives changed – a change that would bring new life and a love beyond words. Then, waiting for the big day to arrive brought with it a sense of emotion that was truly magical and in a way, unexplainable.
The moment I saw this miracle happen before me, I found myself filled with such a strong attachment. Seeing this baby – and falling in love with her immediately – was experience like nothing else, I wanted to protect her, to love her, to hug and kiss her. I wanted to be there for every moment big or small. Every milestone. Always!.
Honestly, I wish I were able to be a grandmother, before being a mother. Being a grandmother has taught me to have endless amount of patience. But, most importantly, I’ve learned to be in the moment and enjoy it. Something I was unable to do when I was raising my kids.
WHAT BEING A GRANDMOTHER MEANS TO ME
- Being able to sing so loud and to see how happy she looks.
- Being able to play with her.
- Melting at the sight of her.
- Missing her when, I don’t see her.
- Not getting enough of her.
- Seeing the world totally a new through her tiny beautiful brown eyes.
My beautiful little princess is the best gift ever. And I am so blessed and grateful for this time in my life.
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