A more seriously inclined child is logical, independent, and focused. People often marvel at how “mature” they are for their age. They are the authority on many matters and relish in perfection.
A SERIOUS CHILD MANTRA IS; LET’S SEE WHAT THIS IS AND LET’S ANALIZE IT AND I KNOW A WAY TO MAKE IT BETTER
Some Clues You Might Have A Serious Child
- They are not as light and plyful as other children.
- They can be pretty rigid and inflexible when it comes to doing things.
- He or she is an innate perfectionist.
- Their ideas for ways to make something better often comes across as criticism.
- They like to arrange items (toy cars, crayons etc) in a specific rows.
THE BEST WAY TO CONNECT WITH A SERIOUS CHILD
- Try relating to them mentally before emotionally. Understand what they are thinking rather than feeling.
- Try relating to them mentally before emotionally. Understand what they are thinking rather than feeling.
- Serious children crave adult respect. Let them know you respect their thoughts and opinions.
- When communicating with them, speak in logical terms that they will understand. Some kids respond “It would make me so happy if you cleaned your room” – But a serious kid will respond better to; “I need you to clean your room because it poses a danger to me or you tripping or twisting an ankle”
- Ask for their opinions and solutions often.
Thanks for your time and see you soon………….
Positive Parenting With Olu 